I think I might take some before and after pictures and post them on here - that ought to be motivational right? It would also be embarrassing though. After all of my talk about simplifying I don't know if really want anyone to see how much stuff I still have. Maybe if I post the before and after pictures together, it won't be so bad. I'm going to start with the worst room - this one that I am in. We keep our computer stuff, all of our paperwork and documents, some books, baby clothes and items, a crib and several boxes of stuff we might use someday in here. We have a computer shelf that can't fit on our computer since our ceiling is sloped so the kids like to play around it and some stuff has accumulated behind it.
I found myself getting a little jealous as my friend, Deanna, talked about how they are temporarily moving into a 760 sf house. I thought, "That would be awfully tight, but how simple life would be!" Then I thought, I don't have to move into a little house to make life simpler - I can pretend I'm moving into a 760 sf house and get rid of anything that is not essential...or almost essential. We'll see how it goes.
I think for my scripture study, I'll look up some stuff about minimizing distractions. That ought to motivate me as well. I'll share some of my favorite findings below:
"Homemaking includes cooking, washing clothes and dishes, and keeping an orderly home. Home is where women have the most power and influence... Growth happens best in a “house of order,” and women should pattern their homes after the Lord’s house (see D&C 109)...
Mothers who know do less. They permit less of what will not bear good fruit eternally. They allow less media in their homes, less distraction, less activity that draws their children away from their home. Mothers who know are willing to live on less and consume less of the world’s goods in order to spend more time with their children—more time eating together, more time working together, more time reading together, more time talking, laughing, singing, and exemplifying. These mothers choose carefully and do not try to choose it all. " Julie B. Beck - Mothers Who Know
Better is little with the fear of the Lord than great treasure and trouble therewith.- Proverbs 15:16
"Jesus said unto him, If thou wilt be perfect, go and sell that thou hast, and give to the poor, and thou shalt have treasure in heaven: and come and follow me. - Matthew 19:21
"From his experiences at Walden Pond, Thoreau determined that there were only four things that a man really needed: food, clothing, shelter, and fuel." -L. Tom Perry Let Him Do It with Simplicity
"We cannot and we must not allow ourselves to get distracted from our sacred duty. We cannot and we must not lose focus on the things that matter most." Elder Dieter F. Uchdorf We Are Doing a Great Work and Cannot Come Down
I fear that some members of the Lord’s Church “live far beneath our privileges” with regard to the gift of the Holy Ghost. Some are distracted by the things of the world that block out the influence of the Holy Ghost, preventing them from recognizing spiritual promptings. This is a noisy and busy world that we live in. Remember that being busy is not necessarily being spiritual. If we are not careful, the things of this world can crowd out the things of the Spirit...We should lower the noise level in our homes so that the noise of the world will not overpower the still, small voice of the Holy Ghost" -Joseph B. Wirthlin The Unspeakable Gift
That ought to keep me going this morning. I think I'll work on one room per day. That way maybe I can make time to actually keep some of our learning goals going. Maybe I'll take a picture of the Savior with me as I go to remind me what our focus us and that all of the stuff can block Him from my view. Wish me luck!
I need to do the same thing, badly! I like your scriptures and quotes on the subject. Thanks.
ReplyDeleteI hope it goes well! I like all of your ideas to keep yourself focused on your goals. We are going to attack the cupboards today because if I don't fix the kitchen I may decide to never cook again....which I would be okay with, but I think my family might revolt. :) Good luck
ReplyDeleteI LOVE that scripture from proverbs! Ha!
ReplyDeleteAll the quotes are great, thanks for sharing.
I too am amazed at the amount of stuff that I STILL have even after getting rid of so much. Quite a contrast to the photos Sister Beck shared during the RS meeting Saturday!
This week my mini decluttering goal is getting rid of extra towels (do I really need 30 towels for 8 people? - NO!)
Good Luck!
I have the words "6 Month Purge", written on my planner, to do this week, too! I am excited about it! :0)
ReplyDeleteOur house needs a MAJOR purging. And redoing of rooms. Moving all the school stuff upstairs because we do school around the table - moving all the sewing stuff downstairs so we can leave it out and not clutter up the kitchen table with that AND our school stuff....and the ripple effect continues.
ReplyDeleteI was fearing to start this day but your quotes have giving me courage to press on!
And, eek! I don't know if I am humble enough to post before and after photos of my rooms...
Sounds fun to me! My main living area is as cleaned out as it can get I think. When my sister came to visit she said it looked like we were moving so we are pretty minimalist but there is always more work to do in the basement and garage. Who knows. Maybe with your inspiration I could waddle down to the basement or out to the garage this week and find some things to toss.
ReplyDeleteI'd love to see pictures! I am always surprised at how much MORE stuff I can find to get rid of. But you're right, it is a process, because getting rid of everything all at once hurts. It's also good to "tag" items in your head to watch and then a few months later assess whether you really need them or not.
ReplyDeleteWe're getting ready for another purge too. Thanks for the extra motivation.
Just this morning I was trying to figure out where I got off track, because a few months ago, I had all these grand plans (probably inspired by you) to go through my house one room at a time and get rid of stuff/organize/etc. so that when this baby comes my life can be simpler - somehow it didn't happen, and now I only have two weeks left. This post motivated me to still try to get done what I can in the next few weeks, though (because it sure isn't going to happen after!) I love all your quotes you included, as always.
ReplyDeleteHow funny- I just started another major purge today, too. I was thinking about how good it feels to do this- (and it really does end up being about every 6 months) and I wondered what would happen if I ever reached the point where my life was so simple I never had to purge stuff again-- would I miss it? Because there's something so satisfying and renewing about the process.
ReplyDeleteSo, now I'm entertaining the thought that if I no longer had to expend energy on the physical stuff, maybe the physical would finally turn to the spiritual- and I would have a purge of my inner self every six months! And maybe that would one day turn into every week-- and, hmm... doesn't that sound like something we've all been taught before?
Just some deep thoughts.
Wishing you luck, as well as me! I am in the same process right now, wondering how we have so much stuff after giving away so much not that long ago. But I am determined to live with less. I know we'll all be happier. Thanks for the inspiration, as always!
ReplyDeleteI love that quote from Proverbs, too! Thanks for a lovely post.
ReplyDeleteYou know, even if you don't post them, you might enjoy having "before" pictures. It's nice to look back and go "Wow! This is so much nicer now!" :)
I'm trying to figure out a game plan here. Decluttering usually starts a domino-effect, and I want to figure out which domino to knock down first. Sounds silly, doesn't it? I should probably just get down to work, but this time through I'm putting a lot of hours into making a great, big master plan and deciding what order to do things.
Good luck!
Before and after pictures always help inspire other people. Post away!!!
ReplyDelete